Keep It Simple
Being a working parent is a hard job especially on moms because they are the one that do the must when it come to the family. They always try to balance their work life while taking care of kids, which can be very draining, but somehow, they seem to keep it together on a day to day basic.
Through every disaster there is a lesson to be learned by everyone, some might get it some might not.
Everywhere we turn these days we seem to hear and see this word more than normal.
The word mom is a very powerful word and one of the most important word on earth.
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How much of us get mom-stration and just which you could just speak your mind with no judgement let it flow like the time of the month.
Well, that’s me someday I just want to scream but it, not the scream of joy but more scream of frustration. I have two beautiful kids I love them more then life it’s self but someday I just wish I have a zap, where I could zap them to time out place π.
When we were young and growing up no one told us that taking care of kids was easy peasy, that your whole life is devoted to them, from every decision to even your sick time and vacation days.
When we were young and growing up no one told us that taking care of kids was easy peasy, that your whole life is devoted to them, from every decision to even your sick time and vacation days.
Growing up parents make it look easy, they hide their frustration and bury the hurt and tuck every feeling away deep inside. They portray a image that looks really easy that makes us at a young age wishing to grow up and have our own but little did we all know that it was just a show.
These little brats are not innocence, they puked on you, they pull your hair, squeeze your face and bite you and the list goes on, but through it all, we have to blow our hair out her face and smile through the frustration.
We never get a reward for all the things we endure, no pat on the back, no grammy of the year just everyone wanting more.
Someday, I want to slam my door and lay in my bed, have a sick day to myself, no one calling mommy for anything just one day to be me. I know they didn’t ask to come into this world and they didn’t come with a switch that we can turn off, nor can we toss them aside when we get busy but mommies can only dreamππ.
Kids can brighten your day, make your dark sky blue, they are your biggest motivation, your best cheerleader, your biggest critics. But someday you just want to say shut up, stop calling my damn name, go to you damn bed, you are so damn annoying, figure the shit out by yourself, wipe your own damn ass, stop, just stop, why are u looking at me, did I say to touch it, no I am not driving you to your friend, do I look like a uber, go ask your dad, do I look like a dictionary. Stop crying do you want something to cry about, stop speaking back before I put my fist in your mouth lol.
Let not forget about the big babies the boyfriends and husband, they want you to do everything, take care of the house, deal with the kids and tend to their needs but what about our needs, we are tired, exhausted overwork and unappreciated. We never get the respect we truly deserve, we get walked on, cuss out and cheated on but through it all we have to bit our tongue, brush it all off and put on that poker β£οΈ face because guess what- welcome to being a mom our job never done π₯°π₯°.
Moms have feeling, we need help, we need our time just like anyone else. Stop thinking we are superwomen because even superheroes need saving too.
We are not saying we don’t love our kids or enjoy every waking moment with them, it’s just that sometimes we get overwhelmed, tired, frustrated and just need to release and reset.
I hope this put a smile on someone face because I don’t mean no harm just want to write something that lots of mom endure but never get to express their feeling without being judge.
Until next time by beauties smile for less!
How much of us remember these words growing up – Stick and Stone may break our Bone, but Words can’t hurt us.
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It’s not what we have that make us Achievers.
Getting the chance to wake up each day that’s a blessing, being able to turn a lock and key, having somewhere warm to lay your head, food to eat that’s a blessing and an achievement. Remember not because you don’t own a house, a car and you haven’t achieved your goal doesn’t make you a non- achiever. Your biggest accomplishment is the ability to keep going after your dream with the intention of one day you will succeed and not giving up along the way.
Winter should be the time you start shopping or even considering your cute winter outfits, winter boots are even looking for your favorite warm drink or desert but instead, this is the time lots of folks shopping for Cuffing partners to get through the buzzard season.
How much of you are guilty of this? Shopping or considering a winter buddy or cuddling partner to get you through the cold βοΈ dreadful winter?
Cuffing seasons normally start around October to March, which is why I thought this is the best time to write this article.
When cuffing season starts people start to rethink been single and start thinking about what they want from there cuffing partners and what they are looking for to get them through the winter holiday season. These people π« will have lots of rules and contract to what they expect from their winter partners, they are not looking for anything long term or any commitment.
There are even resources and apps out there that give you information on cuffing season, and even provide you with lists of questions to ask and what to expect.
Lots of people don’t want to go through the winter and holiday season alone. So they will look for someone they can cuddle up with, spend time and do things with to get them through the holiday. These things as becoming very big for single folks, they will go to the extreme and even make it a mission to find someone as soon as possible before the cold days come up against us.
Cuffing normally lasts through the winter season and as soon as the weather becomes warmer they will break it off and go back to being single again.
So if you are single and don’t want to spend that dreadful cold night and days alone maybe you should consider looking into Cuffing who knows you might find someone to get you the winter season and those dreadful holiday party and events.
Whatever you all decide have fun and stay warm.